Man Oh Man This HAIR!!! Grrrr....

I'm super sick of my hair!!

I have not wore my REAL hair since high school.. Maybe a couple times after high school but this EVERY day thang, yes thang is killing me SHEESH!!!  I had so many hair styles...

braids

Curls

Soft curl

Long and wavy

Ponytail

Flip

short and sassy

Wet and short

same

CURLY and LONG loved it

A longer A line cut..

I have had so many hair styles over the years.. I'm new to the girly girl thing... I have always had to do everything rushed and quick when I was single and had my son and a job, so clipping on a ponytail and hiding my hair in a bun underneath it simple and easy..Just like I like it..  and then after getting married I still didn't know how to do my hair and didn't want to do my hair so I got it style by someone else every week to two weeks.. unless I had braids or twist...

And now with cutting back on things... I choose to keep my gym membership and lose the extra stuff.. Nail, pedi, eyebrows, HAIR... I have to suffer with combing and styling my hair every morning.. I'm getting better than I was at the beginning.. Its actually in a nice little hair cut.. and I love the look on me.. Its just harder than going to the beauty salon sitting in a seat and letting the pampering start.. :)

My hubby loves my hair he hate the "Fake" hair that I used to wear in my hair.. So that's one plus... it makes him happier.. Its just alot of hard work, but the good things DON'T ALWAYS come easy.. :)

So I guess just like everything else you have to weigh the pros and cons..

PROS:

1. It saves A LOTTA money
2. Hubby loves it
3. No more itchy head that can't be scratched
4. I look younger
5. Easy come back after a gym work out
6. No longer will I worry about fitting into any ones schedule
7. I can go swimming

CONS

1. I have to do my hair every morning
2. I don't have the long sexy hair look
3. I can't change my hair looks
4. No one else washing and combing my hair
5. My hair was so full with the "Fake Hair"
6. Hubby hated it
7. I look younger
8. Can't get it wet (some times)

So it looks like Pros win.. LOL

I'll get use to it.. I have to anyways..

The me I must get us to

Like India Arie says...

I am not my hair

I am not this skin
I am not your expectations no no
I am not my hair
I ma not this skin
I am a soul that lives within

Does the way I wear my hair make me a better person?
Does the way I wear my hair make me a better friend? 
Does the way I wear my hair determine my integrity?
I am expressing my creativity..

Thanks for reading..

Until I write again, Until you read again,

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